Monday, January 3, 2011

A reason, season or Lifetime

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime..

When you know which one it is, you will

know what to do for that


When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a
need you have expressed.

They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you
with guidance and support,

To aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.

They may seem like a God send and they are.

They are there for the reason you need them to be..

Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,

this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an


Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.

Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire

fulfilled, their work is done.

The prayer you sent up has been
answered and now it is time to move

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has

come to share, grow or learn.

They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.

They may teach you something you have never done.

They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.

Believe it, it is real.. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,

things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional


Your job is to accept the lesson,

love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other

relationships and areas of your life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life,
whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.


  1. Hey Pay it forward lady!
    What a wonderful idea!

    Create and maintain a contribution and continue to give value as an agent; What a top Drawer RE/MAX idea.

    Thank you!

    David Pylyp
    Living in Toronto

  2. David - thank you so much for your comment. I have changed my "Pay It Forward" a bit this year because I found out the SPCA cannot give receipts to my clients. I now at the end of each month send a cheque to the local Food Bank or SPCA in the local areas and ask them to forward the receipt to my clients for tax purposes. Everyone seems very pleased with the change - especially the charities!! They can do so much more with cash.